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父亲的毕业典礼
蔡江舟1虽然看得出儿子的百般不愿意，他还是去了儿子的毕业典礼。出门时阳光大得有些晃眼，他想如果一会儿有层云过来把这大太阳挡住就好了，这鬼天气。儿子成绩很好，即使在最好的大学里也算得上名列前茅。他想着一会儿儿子走出大礼堂，穿着学士服，捧着优秀毕业生的证书，他就大老远地喊他一声“儿子”，让周围人都看看他有个这么优秀帅气的好儿子。然后或许他们还可以拍一张照，他带了相机，是单反，刚买的，很贵。待会儿一定要和儿子拍一张，他美滋滋地想着。离婚后他整个人的生活重心就是儿子了。他自己在机关当了半辈子职员，最后也只混到个小科长，领着还算够用的薪水，他知道他这辈子算是到头了，接下来就是领退休金养老的生活。退休了，人对于这个社会来说就相当于死了。他常常这样自嘲。他也想过再找个老婆，也想过拿出积蓄完成挣脱中年危机的最后一跃，前段时间股市潮也想着要去炒个股赚点钱。但一想到儿子结婚买房需要他的钱就打消了这些念头。这些年他把钱都藏着，存着，除了每个月给儿子生活费以外没多花一分钱。他知道儿子需要他的这些钱。他的儿子就要从最好的大学毕业了，儿子一直是他生活的希望，是他的骄傲。他一定要去儿子的毕业典礼。2脚上穿着一双刚擦了鞋油的皮鞋，他站在礼堂门口向里张望着。陆续有孩子从里面走出来，他热情地帮那些家长和孩子拍照，热情地教他们应该怎么摆姿势。旁边的爸爸和他一样在张望着，他递过去一根烟，让他待会儿帮忙给他们父子俩拍一张。那个父亲满口答应，又把烟还了回来。笑着说他告诉女儿已经戒烟了，这个不能给女儿看到。他也笑了，以前也是这样。那时候他还骑摩托车，还很强壮，每天放学他都像今天这样抽着烟，跨坐在本田摩托车上，在校门口等着儿子放学。儿子看到他，总是大老远地就喊他一声“爸爸”，然后骄傲地在小同学的眼神里跑过来。他的书包一拐一拐的，像个小尾巴。那时候那个总是坐自己摩托车的大胖小子一下子长这么大了，真有点不习惯。他想到。还是儿子好，从来不叫我戒烟。他又想。手机响了，是儿子的声音。“爸，我在校门口等你，我从后门出来了。”“哦好好，我过去。”他赶忙应道。抱歉地对那对父女做了个告别的手势。“学士服我还掉了，不还不发毕业证书。”儿子这么对他说道，“我们先去吃饭吧，我有点饿。”他看着短袖短裤的儿子，觉得和想象中完全不一样，心里空落落的。一股犟脾气上来，不肯去吃饭，板起脸，执意要先拍照然后再去吃饭。“爸大老远跑来都不累，都不叫饿，你理解一下你爸行吗，你们学校哪里最漂亮？”儿子点了点头，带着他往学校深处走，一路上都在和学校里的同学打招呼，有些羡慕地看着他们结伴出去吃饭唱歌。然后指着一处排着长队的地方说这就是最受欢迎的拍照处了。他心疼地看了看有点委屈的儿子，想上去给那些家长一个个递烟，好早点和孩子拍完，早点去吃饭，但被儿子劝住。“爸，等等吧，我不饿了。”学生和家长他都解决不了，他就只能跟着别人一起拍那些学生。有一对情侣，在他的镜头里又亲又抱，他觉得自己的儿子这么帅，成绩又好，在大学肯定谈过恋爱，不知道什么时候会带给他看。他想着儿子以后结婚一定用得到那些钱，那些钱被他藏在一张银行卡里面，那张卡现在就埋在裤子口袋最深处。“爸，快来。”他赶忙上前，把相机给了一个路过的小姑娘。咔，他笑了，满脸褶。3吃了饭，他自告奋勇地决定帮儿子把东西搬去新家。他试探着问儿子宿舍的东西他们两个人能不能搬得动，结果儿子告诉他所有东西都已经交给物流公司搬好了，现在宿舍已经空了。他愣住了，本来想说他这把老骨头还是挺管用的，生生被噎了回去。过了一会儿，他又起了兴趣，挺了挺腰，决定去儿子的新公寓看一看。他知道儿子从小什么都好，就是不整洁。儿子他妈还在的时候他们夫妻俩就总要帮儿子收拾房间，而那个臭小子说的最多的话就是：“妈，我的校服裤子在哪？”“妈，我眼镜找不到了。还有饭卡也不知道去哪了。”虽然越大就越好，但这个毛病也一直没改掉，有一次他突然去儿子宿舍抽查，发现儿子的桌面上居然堆满了东西，被子也不叠，整个宿舍乱成一片，简直是一团糟。于是他耐心帮儿子整理，儿子一边帮忙一边在旁边说一些歪理。比如说叠被子有助于螨虫生长，而且反正晚上要摊开的。或者是很乱的桌面代表着至少有东西可以思考，一旦桌面太整洁了就没办法思考了。他从来听不进这些歪理，总是把儿子的房间整理成他觉得整洁的样子才离开。所以他觉得他应该去儿子的公寓看看，帮儿子一个忙。这是他的义务。他理所当然的义务。4果然是这样，看着有些杂乱的公寓，他叹了口气，却又长出了一口气。“被子怎么又不叠？”他板起脸，掩饰住心里的笑意，“还有这里的纸箱子，怎么不扔掉。”不管儿子无精打采的样子，他继续自顾自地说着，“还有你这件衣服，不穿了就收起来，还有，这是什么？”顺着他指的方向看过去，是床单。“你床单这么脏了你都不知道洗吗？”他背过身，嘴里发出咿呀的怪声，“我都觉得恶心！”见儿子没反应，他有些恼火。直接开始动手收床单准备去洗。
“爸，你把床单放下来，我不要你管。”儿子抬头看着他，这样说道。他急了，声音提高了不少：“你看看这么脏，我都觉得恶心，你自己看得下去？还不要我管不要我管。不要我管能行吗？你说你也是我儿子，怎么就这么乱。我像你这么大的时候房间整整齐齐的像宾馆一样。”“我不觉得乱，反正我自己这样过得挺好的。”儿子还是冷冷地说到，显得有点不耐烦。他把床单塞进洗衣机，走向儿子，声音也越来越大。“你看你，那个盒子，非要放到床头柜上，你就不能放到抽屉里吗？”“那个盒子我天天都要用。”“不行！天天用也不行，用的时候再拿出来不行吗？”他感到脑子一下炸了起来，“像你这样，怎么能行？”儿子抬起头，看着他，也提高了声音：“怎么不行？”“那你小子不整洁还有道理了是吧？”他吼道。“我就想知道你说的这些整洁有什么用。”“有……有……”他恼羞成怒，一字一顿地，像是绝境的将军在下命令。“快，给，我，把，那，个，盒，子，收，起，来！”“收到哪？”儿子语气里也透露着明显的不耐烦。他猛得一拍桌子，咆哮道：“这么多柜子抽屉不是地方啊，你眼睛瞎还是怎么的，还在这和我犟，我这不是为你好啊？”“您倒是说说看放哪儿？这个抽屉里放的都是证件。”儿子打开一个抽屉，然后又打开一个。“这个里面都是文具。”“然后那个柜子分三层，这层是冬天的衣服，这层是春秋天的衣服，这层是夏天的。”儿子打开一个个柜子，柜子里是叠的整整齐齐的衣服、摆放整齐的物件。他每打开一个柜子声音就提高一点，说到最后几个字时几乎咆哮起来。“您所谓的整洁不过是把所有东西都放到柜子里，也不管哪是哪罢了。我有我自己整理物品的方式，您不要管好吗？每次都是，我放好点什么就来干涉我。现在这是我家，这是我家！”惊慌之下他摸到了口袋里那张承载着他的一切的银行卡。感觉到说话有了底气，于是重新心平气和地说道：“可你这样不会有小姑娘看上你的。”儿子笑了起来，撇了撇嘴。“我不让她到我家来不就行了。您看我衣服那么干净，就别操心这个啦。”“还犟嘴，还犟嘴，再犟嘴我不给你小子钱结婚。”“啪！”儿子摸出一份像是合同一样的东西，拍在桌上。“爸，我做的那个软件被收购了，卖了100万，我不缺钱，您也不容易，您好好养老就行了。”他一怔，不知道说些什么，后来发生了什么都不知道，浑浑噩噩地就离开了儿子的公寓。他一直死死捏着那张卡。5回到家，家里空空落落的，一直也只有他一个人。他打开一瓶白酒，剥一小碗花生独酌独饮，怔怔地不知道在想些什么。喝到第三杯的时候，他觉得不对。他告诉自己，儿子一定需要他的那张卡，那张卡里有一百万。他要回去，他要把那张卡给他儿子。他儿子需要这张卡。抖抖索索地走过安检口，老老实实地让相机也过了安检，他弓着背，坐到了地铁上。手机一震，是同事的祝福，朋友圈多了10个赞。那是他和儿子的合照，配的文字是：“大学毕业，儿子真的长大了，我也终于解放咯。”后面配的是一个咧开嘴的笑脸。他把手机搂在怀里，眼泪顺着他的皱纹流下来，滴在地上。
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最近，一篇不同寻常的毕业演讲在美国社交媒体刷屏。今年6月初，美国最高法院首席大法官约翰·罗伯茨（John Roberts）来到新罕布什尔州的卡迪根山中学（Cardigan Mountain School），参加儿子的初中毕业典礼，并发表演讲。这篇演讲当时并没有引起轰动，但近日《华盛顿邮报》（Washington Post）把其中的金句挖掘了出来，竟引发美国媒体和社交网络的疯狂转发。为什么呢？因为这番演讲和一般毕业典礼演讲嘉宾说的话太不一样了！他没有祝福毕业生们有个光明美好的未来，却祝愿他们遭遇各种不幸……From time to time in the years to come,&I hope you will be treated unfairly, so that you will come to know the value of justice.我希望在未来岁月中，你能时不时地遭遇不公，唯有如此，你才能懂得公正的价值。I hope that you will suffer betrayal&because that will teach you the importance of loyalty.我希望你尝到背叛的滋味，这样你才能领悟到忠诚之重要。Sorry to say, but&I hope you will be lonely&from time to time so that you don’t take friends for granted.抱歉，我还希望你们时常感到孤独，唯有如此，你才不会视朋友为理所当然。I wish you bad luck, again, from time to time so that you will be conscious of the role of chance in life and understand that your success is not completely deserved and that the failure of others is not completely deserved either.我祝你们偶尔运气不佳，这样你才会意识到机遇在人生中扮演的角色，从而明白你的成功并非天经地义，而他人的失败也不是命中注定。And when you lose, as you will from time to time,&I hope every now and then, your opponent will gloat over your failure.&It is a way for you to understand the importance of sportsmanship.当你偶尔失败时，我愿你的对手时不时地会幸灾乐祸。这样你才能懂得互相尊重的竞技精神的重要。I hope you’ll be ignored&so you know the importance of listening to others.我希望你被人无视，唯有如此，你才懂得倾听他人有多重要。And I hope you will have just enough pain&to learn compassion.我祝你感受足够的痛楚来学会同情。果然良药苦口，忠言逆耳。这一系列“祝福”发人深思。来看这段视频：约翰·罗伯茨还评论了一下演讲嘉宾们爱对毕业生说的一句话：“做自己”（Be yourself）。Unless you are perfect, it does not mean don’t make any changes.&除非你完美无瑕，那么这句话绝不意味着不去改变自己。他鼓励毕业生们思考自己想成为什么样的人，这样才能真正地“做自己”。他引用苏格拉底的话说：“The unexamined life is not worth living.”未经自省的人生没有意义。约翰·罗伯茨还说了一句大实话，“你们都是享有特权的一批年轻人”：You are also privileged young men.&And if you weren’t privileged when you came here, you are privileged now because you have been here.&My advice is: Don’t act like it.你们也是享有特权的一群年轻人。即使初来此地之时你们并不优人一等，但成为这里的一员，已经使你们比他人享有更多优势。我的建议是，不要表现得高人一等。怎样不表现得高人一等？他给了一些具体建议：When you get to your new school, walk up and introduce yourself to the person who is raking the leaves, shoveling the snow or emptying the trash. Learn their name and call them by their name during your time at the school.&当你来到新学校时，见到那些扫落叶、铲雪、倒垃圾的人，便走上前自我介绍，同时记住他们名字。在学校的日子里，记得称呼他们的名字。给完建议，他还不忘开个小玩笑，因为卡迪根山中学是一所男子中学，所以他说：You’ve been at a school with just boys. Most of you will be going to a school with girls. I have no advice for you.你们之前在的学校里只有男孩，现在大多数人都将进入有女生的学校。关于这件事，我就不提建议了。当时场下观众一片爆笑，罗伯茨也忍不住笑起来……最后，约翰·罗伯茨以鲍勃·迪伦1973年写的一首歌，《永远年轻》（Forever Young），作为结语。这首歌是50年前迪伦在巡演期间思念儿子所做，饱含父母对孩子的美好期盼，罗伯茨说：The wishes are beautiful, they’re timeless. They’re universal.这些期盼是美好的、永恒的，也是普世的。歌词如下：May God bless and keep you always,愿上帝的庇护与你同在May your wishes all come true,愿你能够梦想成真May you always do for others愿你永远帮助别人And let others do for you.也接受别人的恩惠May you build a ladder to the stars愿你可以造一把采摘繁星的云梯And climb on every rung,稳妥沿它而上May you stay forever young,愿你永远年轻Forever young, forever young,永远年轻，永远年轻May you stay forever young.愿你永远年轻May you grow up to be righteous,愿你长大后正直无私May you grow up to be true,愿你懂事时真实善良May you always know the truth愿你永远了解真理的方向And see the lights surrounding you.所到之处都有高灯明照May you always be courageous,愿你永远勇敢无畏Stand upright and be strong,坚韧不拔，意志坚强May you stay forever young,愿你永远年轻Forever young, forever young,永远年轻，永远年轻May you stay forever young.愿你永远年轻May your hands always be busy,愿你总是忙碌充实May your feet always be swift,愿你的脚步永远轻盈敏捷May you have a strong foundation愿你有一个坚强的信念，屹立不倒When the winds of changes shift.当暴风骤雨来临时May your heart always be joyful,愿你的心总是充满快乐May your song always be sung,愿你的歌曲能够永远被人传唱May you stay forever young,愿你永远年轻Forever young, forever young,永远年轻，永远年轻May you stay forever young.愿你永远年轻这篇演讲机智幽默、妙语连珠、提神醒脑。听多了鸡汤演讲，再来听听这些大实话，绝对让你神清气爽……演讲全文Rain, somebody said, is like confetti from heaven. So even the heavens are celebrating this morning, joining the rest of us at this wonderful commencement ceremony.人们说，雨就像天堂洒下的五彩纸屑。所以今早，连天堂也在和我们一起庆祝这个美妙的毕业典礼。Before we go any further, graduates, you have an important task to perform because behind you are your parents and guardians.在我继续下去之前，毕业生们，你们有一个重要任务要做。在你们身后是你们的父母和家长。Two or three or four years ago, they drove into Cardigan, dropped you off, helped you get settled and then turned around and drove back out the gates. It was an extraordinary sacrifice for them. They drove down the trail of tears back to an emptier and lonelier house.两年、三年或四年前，他们驱车送你们来到卡迪根山中学，帮你们安顿妥当，然后又开车离去。他们做出了很大的牺牲。他们一路含泪回到那更加空荡荡、更加寂寞的家。They did that because the decision about your education, they knew, was about you. It was not about them. That sacrifice and others they made have brought you to this point. But this morning is not just about you. It is also about them, so I hope you will stand up and turn around and give them a great round of applause. Please.他们这样做，因为这个关于教育的决定，实际上，更是关于你们本身。是他们做出的牺牲，以及各种奉献，成就了你们的今天。但今天早上你们不是唯一的主角，今天也是他们的大日子，所以，我希望大家能起立、转身，为自己的家人送上热烈鼓掌。Now when somebody asks me how the remarks at Cardigan went, I will be able to say they were interrupted by applause.&好了，现在如果有人问我卡迪根的演讲进行得怎么样，我就可以说，掌声如雷，把演讲都打断了。Congratulations, class of 2017. You’ve reached an important milestone. An important stage of your life is behind you. I’m sorry to be the one to tell you it is the easiest stage of your life, but it is in the books. While you’ve been at Cardigan, you have all been a part of an important international community as well. And I think that needs to be particularly recognized.祝贺你们，2017届毕业生。你们来到了一个重要的里程碑，人生中的一个重要阶段已经过去。但很抱歉，我要告诉你们，这是你们人生中最简单的一个阶段，但它已告一段落。你们就读于卡迪根山中学时，同时也成为了国际社会中的一员，我觉得大家尤其应当认识到这一点。Now around the country today at colleges, high schools, middle schools, commencement speakers are standing before impatient graduates. And they are almost always saying the same things. They will say that today is a commencement exercise. ‘It is a beginning, not an end. You should look forward.’&今天，在全国各地的大学、高中、初中，有很多的毕业演讲者正站在一群躁动不安的毕业生面前，他们讲的话大同小异。他们会说，今天是一个崭新开端的提前演练，“这是一个开始，而不是结束。你们应当向前看。”And I think that is true enough, however, I think if you’re going to look forward to figure out where you’re going, it’s good to know where you’ve been and to look back as well.&他们说的很对，然而，我觉得如果你要向前看，找到自己的方向，那么清楚自己走过的路，回头看看，也同样有益。And I think if you look back to your first afternoon here at Cardigan, perhaps you will recall that you were lonely. Perhaps you will recall that you were a little scared, a little anxious. And now look at you. You are surrounded by friends that you call brothers, and you are confident in facing the next step in your education.我想，如果你们回顾自己来到卡迪根第一天的那个午后，你们也许会记起自己当时有多孤独，也许还有些害怕、忐忑不安。然而看看现在的你们，身边满是朋友，彼此成为兄弟，信心满满地迎接下一教育阶段。It is worth trying to think why that is so. And when you do, I think you may appreciate that it was because of the support of your classmates in the classroom, on the athletic field and in the dorms. And as far as the confidence goes, I think you will appreciate that it is not because you succeeded at everything you did, but because with the help of your friends, you were not afraid to fail.想一想，为什么会有这样的变化，这是很有意义的。我想你们也许会感谢同学们在课堂上、运动场上、宿舍里给予的帮助。而信心是哪里来的呢，也许你们要感激的不仅是自己的成功，还要感激因为朋友的相助，你们不再害怕失败。And if you did fail, you got up and tried again. And if you failed again, you got up and tried again. And if you failed again, it might be time to think about doing something else. But it was not just success, but not being afraid to fail that brought you to this point.如果失败了，你们爬起来重新来过。如果再次失败，你们爬起来再来一次。如果这次还是失败了，也许是时候想想做点别的事了。但并不仅仅是成功，还有不惧失败的勇气让你们走到了今天。Now the commencement speakers will typically also wish you good luck and extend good wishes to you. I will not do that, and I’ll tell you why.&现在，毕业典礼的演讲嘉宾照例要祝你们好运并送上祝福了。我不会这样做，让我来告诉你为什么。From time to time in the years to come, I hope you will be treated unfairly, so that you will come to know the value of justice.我希望在未来岁月中，你能时不时地遭遇不公，唯有如此，你才能懂得公正的价值。I hope that you will suffer betrayal because that will teach you the importance of loyalty.我希望你尝到背叛的滋味，这样你才能领悟到忠诚之重要。Sorry to say, but I hope you will be lonely from time to time so that you don’t take friends for granted.抱歉，我还希望你们时常感到孤独，唯有如此，你才不会视朋友为理所当然。I wish you bad luck, again, from time to time so that you will be conscious of the role of chance in life and understand that your success is not completely deserved and that the failure of others is not completely deserved either.我祝你们偶尔运气不佳，这样你才会意识到机遇在人生中扮演的角色，从而明白你的成功并非天经地义，而他人的失败也不是命中注定。And when you lose, as you will from time to time, I hope every now and then, your opponent will gloat over your failure. It is a way for you to understand the importance of sportsmanship.当你偶尔失败时，我愿你的对手时不时地会幸灾乐祸。这样你才能懂得互相尊重的竞技精神的重要。I hope you’ll be ignored so you know the importance of listening to others, and I hope you will have just enough pain to learn compassion.我希望你常被人无视，唯有如此，你才能懂得倾听他人有多重要。也祝你感受切肤之痛，从而学会同情。Whether I wish these things or not, they’re going to happen. And whether you benefit from them or not will depend upon your ability to see the message in your misfortunes.无论我祝愿与否，这些事都会发生。而你能否从中获益，则取决于你能否参透这些苦难中传递的信息。Now commencement speakers are also expected to give some advice. They give grand advice, and they give some useful tips. The most common grand advice they give is for you to be yourself. It is an odd piece of advice to give people dressed identically, but you should — you should be yourself. But you should understand what that means.&毕业典礼演讲嘉宾还要给出一些忠告。他们会说一些宏大的建议或实用的技巧。而他们最常说的宏大建议就是，做自己。给一群穿着整齐划一的人提出这样的建议有点奇怪，不过你们确实应该做自己。但你们要明白这句话的真正含义。Unless you are perfect, it does not mean don’t make any changes. In a certain sense, you should not be yourself. You should try to become something better. People say ‘be yourself’ because they want you to resist the impulse to conform to what others want you to be. But you can’t be yourself if you don't learn who are, and you can’t learn who you are unless you think about it.除非你完美无瑕，那么这句话绝不意味着不去改变自己。从某种意义上来说，你不应当做自己。你应当努力成为更好的人。人们说“做自己”，因为他们希望你不要屈服于他人的意愿随波逐流。但如果你自己都不了解自己，那么你就无法“做自己”，而你只有思考了，才能清楚自己想成为怎样的人。The Greek philosopher Socrates said, ‘The unexamined life is not worth living.’ And while ‘just do it’ might be a good motto for some things, it’s not a good motto when it’s trying to figure out how to live your life that is before you. And one important clue to living a good life is to not to try to live the good life. The best way to lose the values that are central to who you are is frankly not to think about them at all.古希腊哲学家苏格拉底曾说过，“未经自省的人生没有意义”。对某些事来说，“放胆去做”也许是句金玉良言，但当你在思考未来人生将如何度过时，这却不是一句好的格言。不要为了所谓的“好生活”而生活。如果你从来不思索生活的意义，那你很容易就会迷失自我。So that’s the deep advice. Now some tips as you get ready to go to your new school. Other the last couple of years, I have gotten to know many of you young men pretty well, and I know you are good guys. But you are also privileged young men. And if you weren’t privileged when you came here, you are privileged now because you have been here. My advice is: Don’t act like it.以上是一些深刻的忠告。接下来的建议是给即将步入新学校的你们。过去几年里，我已经熟识你们当中很多年轻人，也知道你们都是好青年。但你们也是享有特权的一群年轻人。即使初来此地之时你们并不优人一等，但成为这里的一员，已经使你们比他人享有更多优势。我的建议是，不要表现得高人一等。&When you get to your new school, walk up and introduce yourself to the person who is raking the leaves, shoveling the snow or emptying the trash. Learn their name and call them by their name during your time at the school. Another piece of advice: When you pass by people you don’t recognize on the walks, smile, look them in the eye and say hello. The worst thing that will happen is that you will become known as the young man who smiles and says hello, and that is not a bad thing to start with. You’ve been at a school with just boys. Most of you will be going to a school with girls. I have no advice for you.当你来到新学校时，见到那些扫落叶、铲雪、倒垃圾的人，便走上前自我介绍，同时记住他们名字。在学校的日子里，记得称呼他们的名字。另外一条建议是：当你在路上遇见陌生人时，看着他们眼睛并微笑致意。这样做最糟糕的结果不过是，人们会记住你这个爱笑爱打招呼的年轻人，这是个不错的开头。你们之前在的学校里只有男孩，现在大多数人都将进入有女生的学校。关于这件事，我没有建议。The last bit of advice I’ll give you is very simple, but I think it could make a big difference in your life. Once a week, you should write a note to someone. Not an email. A note on a piece of paper. It will take you exactly 10 minutes. Talk to an adult, let them tell you what a stamp is. You can put the stamp on the envelope. Again, 10 minutes, once a week.最后一条建议十分简单，但是却会对你的人生产生很大的影响：每周给一些人写一封信。不是电子邮件，而是写在一张纸上，只要花你10分钟。问一位长辈，让他告诉你邮票是什么，然后你就可以给信封贴邮票了。再说一遍，一周只花10分钟哦。I will help you, right now. I will dictate to you the first note you should write. It will say, ‘Dear [fill in the name of a teacher at Cardigan Mountain School].’ Say: ‘I have started at this new school. We are reading [blank] in English. Football or soccer practice is hard, but I’m enjoying it. Thank you for teaching me.’我现在就可以教你怎样做。我告诉你第一张便条写什么。称呼是“亲爱的卡迪根山中学某老师”，然后写“我们已经开始了新学期，最近正在学某本书，足球对我来说很困难，但我很喜欢。谢谢您的教诲。”Put it in an envelope, put a stamp on it and send it. It will mean a great deal to people who — for reasons most of us cannot contemplate — have dedicated themselves to teaching middle school boys. As I said, that will take you exactly 10 minutes a week. By the end of the school year, you will have sent notes to 40 people. Forty people will feel a little more special because you did, and they will think you are very special because of what you did. No one else is going to carry that dividend during your time at school.然后把你的便条装进信封，贴好邮票后寄出。这对那些把生命奉献给教育初中小男孩的中学老师们来讲意义非凡。如我所说，每周只需要花十分钟。当学年结束时，你差不多给40位老师寄出过便条。这40位老师会因为你做的这件事而感到自己很特殊，同时也会对你另眼相看。在学校的时光里，这是你一人独享的一份红利。Enough advice. I would like to end by reading some important lyrics. I cited the Greek philosopher Socrates earlier. These lyrics are from the great American philosopher, Bob Dylan. They’re almost 50 years old. He wrote them for his son, Jesse, who he was missing while he was on tour. It lists the hopes that a parent might have for a son and for a daughter. They’re also good goals for a son and a daughter. The wishes are beautiful, they’re timeless. They’re universal.&忠告说得够多了。下面我将引用一段著名的歌词结束我的致辞。刚才，我引用了希腊哲人苏格拉底的名言，而这些歌词，则来自伟大的美国哲人鲍勃·迪伦。这些歌词已有50年历史，是迪伦巡回演出期间，思子心切，写给儿子杰西的。歌词表达了家长对子女的美好期盼。同时也可作为子女们的奋斗目标。这些期盼是美好的、永恒的，也是普世的。They’re good and true, except for one: It is the wish that gives the song its title and its refrain. That wish is a parent’s lament. It’s not a good wish.&整体来说都很好，除了有一条，即歌名和副歌里表达的愿望。那只能算是家长们的扼腕叹息，算不得美好的愿望。So these are the lyrics from Forever Young by Bob Dylan:这就是鲍勃迪伦的《永远年轻》的歌词：May God bless and keep you always,愿上帝的庇护与你同在May your wishes all come true,愿你能够梦想成真May you always do for others愿你永远帮助别人And let others do for you.也接受别人的恩惠May you build a ladder to the stars愿你可以造一把采摘繁星的云梯And climb on every rung,稳妥沿它而上May you stay forever young,愿你永远年轻May you grow up to be righteous,愿你长大后正直无私May you grow up to be true,愿你懂事时真实善良May you always know the truth愿你永远了解真理的方向And see the lights surrounding you.所到之处都有高灯明照May you always be courageous,愿你永远勇敢无畏Stand upright and be strong,坚韧不拔，意志坚强May you stay forever young,愿你永远年轻May your hands always be busy,愿你总是忙碌充实May your feet always be swift,愿你脚步永远轻盈May you have a strong foundation愿你根基牢固When the winds of changes shift.在变故横生之时May your heart always be joyful,愿你的心总是充满快乐May your song always be sung,愿你的歌曲能够永远被人传唱May you stay forever young,愿你永远年轻来源 |&中国日报双语新闻（ID：Chinadaily_Mobile）
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